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Wedding Photography Myths Debunked! What Couples Need to Know

February 26, 2025

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Wedding planning is exciting, but it’s also overwhelming—especially when it comes to photography. It’s not uncommon for couples to feel stressed about capturing the “perfect” moments. Add to that the flood of myths surrounding wedding photography, and things can get even more confusing.

Today, we’re here to debunk the biggest myths about wedding photography so you can make informed, confident decisions about your big day. By the end of this post, you’ll see wedding photography in a new light, and maybe even feel more excited about working with your photographer.

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Myth #1: More Photos = Better

It’s easy to assume that the more photos you receive, the better your wedding album will be. After all, who wants to miss a moment, right? But here’s the truth—when it comes to wedding photography, quality always trumps quantity.

Professional wedding photographers focus on storytelling rather than just snapping hundreds of random images. They deliver carefully selected, edited photos that highlight the most meaningful, emotional, and beautiful moments of your special day.

Would you rather have 700 mediocre shots where half the guests blinked or 200 polished, heartwarming photographs that you’ll treasure forever? Trust your photographer to curate the best moments and eliminate unnecessary duplicates or awkward angles.

Tip

When discussing deliverables with your photographer, ask about the editing process and how they ensure high-quality imagery.

Myth #2: Posing is Fake

We’ve heard this one so often—“I don’t want my wedding photos to look stiff or staged.” It’s a valid concern, but here’s the reality: professional photographers are experts at making posed shots look natural and genuine.

Whether it’s a romantic portrait of you and your partner or a group shot with family, your photographer will guide you into flattering poses while keeping things relaxed and fun. And those “candid” moments everyone loves? They often happen in between the posed ones!

A skilled photographer blends posed and candid photography seamlessly, capturing authentic smiles, laughter, and even those quick, loving glances.

Tip

Still worried about posing? Many photographers offer engagement sessions, which allow you to practice being in front of the camera before the big day.

Myth #3: You Don’t Need a Second Shooter

This one depends on the scale of your wedding, but often, hiring a second shooter is a game-changer.

Having multiple photographers brings different perspectives and more coverage. For example, while one photographer captures the tear-filled aisle walk, the second shooter can focus on the groom’s emotional reaction—or even your guests’ excitement! It also means no important detail goes unnoticed, whether it’s a fun moment on the dance floor or the intricate details of your centerpieces.

And here’s the best part—multiple shooters ensure that your day runs even smoother. They divide and conquer, meaning fewer time constraints and more opportunities to capture your love story. All of my packages come with a second shooter included for this reason.

Tip

Talk to your photographer about how they use a second shooter during weddings to maximize coverage.

Myth #4: Photography Isn’t a Priority

Weddings are often full of budget trade-offs, and it’s easy to think, “Maybe we can go on the cheaper side with photography.” But here’s the thing—after the flowers wilt, the cake is eaten, and the dance floor is empty, your wedding photos will be your lifelong treasure.

These images are much more than just documentation. They encapsulate all the emotion, love, and joy of your day, becoming heirlooms that you’ll look back on years down the line.

Investment in a skilled photographer is an investment in the preservation of your favorite memories. Skimp elsewhere if you must, but not here.

Tip

When building your wedding budget, allocate a sizeable portion for photography—and view it as a lasting keepsake, not just another service.

Myth #5: Wedding Photos Take Too Long

“Will my whole reception be me posing for photos?” Not at all! Your photographer understands how important it is for you to enjoy your day, and they’ll work with you to create an efficient photography timeline.

A clear schedule—prepared in advance—helps ensure you get all the essential shots without feeling rushed. Many photographers plan for 15–30 minutes of couples’ portraits, quick family group shots, and then blend into the background for candid coverage.

By doing some prep before the wedding (like making a list of family combinations or creating a first-look moment), you can have streamlined photos and plenty of time on the dance floor. If this is truly important to you—and I believe it should be—seek out a photographer who specializes in documentary-style work!

Tip

Ask your photographer for help planning your timeline—and communicate what’s most important to you. I schedule planning calls at least a month before your wedding to ensure we’re fully aligned and everything is perfectly prepared for your big day!

Achieve Picture-Perfect Memories

Great wedding photography goes beyond snapping pictures. It’s about capturing the love, energy, and emotion of your celebration in a way that feels true to you. By debunking these myths and gaining clarity, you’re one step closer to choosing the right photographer and ensuring your day is beautifully preserved.

Need more tips or tailored guidance? Contact me today—I’m here to support you every step of the way.

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